In My Opinion

My opinons on various subjects.

May 20, 2008

Big David Vs. Little David

The finals of American Idol seson 7 began tonight with a David Vs. David showdown. I am happy that David Archuleta, who was my favorite from the beginning made it to the finals and gave the best performances of the night with Simon Cowell claiming that he won all three rounds.

Will he win? In my opinion he is the best singer, and has been throughout the whole competition. David Cook is also very good and I would even say that he performs better than David Archuleta but that may be because he has more experience and confidence that comes with age. David Archuleta has tons of potential and can only get better! I didn't really like David Cook in the beginning, I thought he came off as being cocky but in the past few weeks I have seen a different side of him and I really like who he is as a person and also think he has lots of star quality. With that being said I probably wouldn't buy David Cooks CD but will defiantly buy David Archulta's CD because his style appeals to me more.

Should he win? Based on tonight's performance he should defiantly win, but American Idol is a "pop competition" and therefore the winner is the one with the "popular" vote and David Cook does seem to be more popular. Which ever the case may be, both deserve to make it big in the music industry and all the David's are competing for is a title, as we have seen in the past the idol who wins wont necessairly sell the most albums or have the most fame.

I think its silly how cook fans hate Archuleta and vice verse as clearly both of these guys genuinely like and care for the other and I am sure they will continue to be friends.

I have heard people (mainly my roommates) say that David Archuleta wont get very far after American Idol but I believe he will prove them wrong. My prediction is that David Archuleta will have a CD out by the end of the year that will do very well and sing for an upcoming Disney release. I also predict that he will be around in the music business for a really long time.

April 01, 2008

Songs about Jesus

After listening to David Archuleta's performance on American Idol of Dolly Parton's "Smokey Mountain Memories" I was thinking about how wonderful it was that he sang about Jesus and The Father (God). It was a truly amazing performance! David Archuleta would definatly get my vote. He does sign better with Ballads but so do my favorourite singers: Josh Groban, Michael Buble, etc.

We could use some more uplifting songs in mainstream music about God and Jesus without worrying about offending people. Carrie Underwood is also a good example of vocally sharing her faith in the music business, with her song "Jesus take the wheel" making #1 on the country chart.

Country music is more likely to have these kinds of song because they are more soulful and from the heart, which is one of the reasons why I love country music, particularly new country.

It also seemed like David Archuleta's dad was fighting back tears after the performance. His dad, Jeff Archuleta seems like a very supportive father and he's their every week cheering on his son. I don't believe for one minute that he is this Crazy stage dad that people are making him out to be and I think its about time that those rumours ended.

March 26, 2008

The Top 10 on American Idol

Before this season of America Idol started my roommates would make comments about how they thought American Idol was silly and then I was able to encourage them to watch it to support the two LDS people on the show and then they started calling me bias .... well, I walked in the house halfway through the show to find them watching American Idol.

We have made it to the top 10, which is a big deal for those that made it because they will get to tour across the USA, earning each contestant aprox. $100,000.

Here are the top 10 of season 7:

Brooke White
Carly Smithson
Chikeze
David Archuleta
David Cook
Jason Castro
Kristy Lee Cook
Michael Johns
Ramiele Malubay
Syesha Mercado


I came home just before Brooke White sang so I was still able to see both hers and David Archuleta's performances. I really liked both of their performances despite Simon's comments. I had never heard the song "You're the Voice" before but I really liked it and David Archuleta did a great job singing it, he has a way of making people feel the message of the song. His performance was kind of "High School Musical-ish" but hey he's 17 and isn't that what kids that age like?

I liked to see baby pictures of the contestants ... sooo cute! It was also fun to hear about the growing up and their families.

My two other favorite performances that I saw were Kristy Lee Cook and Michael Johns, although I am Canadian and her song was very American I thought she sang it beautifully and really connected with the song. Michael's performance was great, he sang and performed like he was giving a concert and wasn't cocky about it like some performers have been. hmmm ... I wonder if Kristy Lee Cook and David Cook are related?

It will be interesting to see who goes home tonight but I am still rooting for Brooke White and David Archuleta.

March 18, 2008

Mormons on American Idol

This season of American Idol has been the year that I have been the most into American Idol. It started with the fact that two of the constants are LDS: David Archuleta and Brooke White, but has developed into me actually really loving these performers and enjoying other performances as well.

Apparently Randy Jackson said that this year was all about the young ones but now the top 11 seems to be shaping into a pretty mature group of singers with 3 of them being married and one engaged, which I like because it shows that they are family oriented. However, David Archuleta is the youngest at 17, but really mature for his age. Ramiele Malubay is also pretty young at 20 years old but actually seems younger. She seems like a really sweet girl and I like her singing style but does she really have to cry so much when someone leaves? She will see them again and I'm sure she wants to win.

Brooke White and David Archuleta are, I think, the most talented LDS singers on American Idol so far. Carmen Rasmussen and John Peter (I think that was his name), where OK but I wonder if them being LDS is what made them go as far as they did (people voting for them because they were LDS?) I do have to say that Carmen Rasmussen is heading into the country music business now and I just listened to her single "Nothin' Like The Summer " and I loved it! I think she has improved alot.

I think all four contestants did a good job at maintaining high moral standards throughout the competition, which is great to see at a time when there seems to be such low regard for morality. However, there are many other people in the media that we can look up to, not just LDS people. Being LDS though, its fun to root for them ... which is all I can do, being Canadian.

My most favorite performances from David Archuleta were "Heaven" and "Imagine" I actually missed both of these performances on live broadcast but watched them on youtube. This kid is Amazing! He can probably work on his stage performances but he sure can sign and it was pretty cute when he said tonight, I hope I remember all the words this time. He seems like the kind of guy every mother would want her daughter to have, very humble, kind, lovable and all-around nice guy.

My favourite performance from Brooke White was last weeks "Let it be", I Loved everything about her performance! She put so much heart and soul into it. I actually liked her vocals tonight but not really the performance, awkward dance moves .. haha. I love her though, she is a great role model for young girls and has such a beautiful smile that you can't help but smile when you watch her perform.

other performers I really like are Syesha, she also seems like a really sweet girl and has a beautiful voice; Chikeze - I loved his performance last week!; Carly Smithson is also a beautiful singer; and I also like Kristy Lee Cook, she may not be the best singer right now but I think she has lots of potential - She also seems like such a sweet girl and I love country music as well!

I didn't like Amanda or David Cooks performances tonight but most likely because I don't like Rock, so I don't really have any appreciation for it. One of my roommates really liked their performances so I guess their good .. I just didn't see it. I really liked David Cook last week though.

November 20, 2006

Dating

When I sign on to the Internet my homepage is the MSN site where I usually read over the news of the day and some other interesting information. This morning there was a feature called 8 ways to improve your dating habits and seen how I don't really have a dating life I clicked on it. (although I do have one on Friday, yay my 2nd date of the year). Usually I don't agree with the dating and relationship tips on this column as it doesn't really reflect my values and beliefs but I have to say I agree with this article. I especially like how it is directed towards men because as we all know they should be the ones taking charge of the dating scene (ie. asking for the date, picking the girl up, etc.).

The author, Esther Zsoldos, suggests eight ways a man can impress a woman. I'll list them along with my own experiences and opinion.

1. Bring her flowers

All my girlfriends (which includes my mom and sisters) know that the one way a guy can REALLY impress me is to bring me flowers. I really wouldn't care if he picked them off the side of the road or he bought them from a flower shop. To open the door and have him hand me flowers would make me really happy and show me how thoughtful he is. I haven't had this experience yet although one guy asked me if I remember when he gave me flowers but he never did .... trust me I would remember if he did as I am sure any girl would.

2. Tell her she looks beautiful

I have had guys say you look nice tonight or I like how you did your hair or that colour on you, etc. but one time a guy came and picked me and said "You look really beautiful tonight". At first I was really surprised because I wasn't expecting it at all but it did make me feel really good about myself and about him as well.

3. Open the Doors

I think all the guys I have been out with have done this which I think is a really kind gesture. There have been times where its kind of awkward getting out of the car not knowing if you should open the door or wait for him so I always like it when the guy says "Oh, I'll get the door for you" or something along those lines. Also, there are times I just open the door forgetting to let the guy open the door for me, I hope it doesn't make them think I'm a feminist or anything.

4. Walk her to the door at the end of the night

Most of the guys have done this but there have been a couple that haven't which kind of leaves me disappointed. In fact that same guy that said "You look beautiful tonight" just gave me a hug outside his car and drove off before I even got to the door so if he had walked me to the door I would have been really impressed with that date. Also, a hug is always a nice gesture at the end of the evening.

5. Don't answer your cell phone

I don't think I have ever had any guy answer a cell phone in the middle of a date but I did have some guy whose pager kept going off and he would stop at pay phones to call them back. He never had any quarters and unfortunately I did. I wouldn't mind though if some guy later asked if he could check his messages to find out if the call was important.

6. Don't bring up your ex girlfriend

ummm ... yeah this is really annoying. However, if you do have a girlfriend, you should probably bring that up.

7. Don't talk only about yourself

This is annoying too, you want to have a well balanced conversation .... it shouldn't be all about your shoes that yu think are really cool.

8. Don't have a negative attitude

There is really nothing more annoying than going on a date with someone who just talks about how bad everything is going for him and how he is a failure. Does he really think I would want to go out with him again?

Also, I like it when I go out with a guy who treats everyone nicely and talks nice about people. There was a guy I had been on a few dates with and he always walked me to the door and gave me a hug but then he went on a date with a friend of mine and never walked her to the door, in fact he never even got out of his car. That didn't impress me at all, I think everyone deserves to be treated nicely on a date and with respect whether or not you actually like her (or him as this applies to girls too).

I think it is important to remember that a "date" and "dating" are two separate things. Asking someone on a date is NOT asking someone for a commitment ... who knows, maybe by the end of that date it will be. However, it seems that a lot of guys are afraid to ask girls out because they think that she'll think he likes her or reads more into the date than he does. That's what second or third or more dates are for .... to lead to "dating".

September 29, 2006

Too Picky?

When your single and would rather be married or people think you should be married by now, you often hear "well, maybe if you weren't so picky ...." or "you are just being too picky".

What is being too picky? Actually that's something I am contemplating right now and can't fully answer so I'll be looking for "your opinions" on the matter. However, in my opinion who you marry is the most important decision you will make, not only will it effect your life but your children's lives and their children and so forth so you kind of do have to be picky.

"So what is it you are looking for?" is a question I hear a lot. I want someone who is dedicated - to me, his family, himself, church, school/work, etc., I want someone who has goals and manages his time wisely (not someone who sits around playing videogames when the garbage needs to be taken out), I want someone who is happy and optimistic and can make me laugh, someone who I feel like can take care of me and "our children", someone who I can see lives the teachings and standards of the gospel and who I know will be a good husband and father. Is that really too much to ask for?

Is it really being too picky to not want to date someone who doesn't really have any ambition to do anything or knows where he wants to be in a year, let alone 5 or 10?

Education is really important to me and I love learning but my greatest priority is to be a mother and devote the majority of my time to raising my children. Is it really being too picky to turn down some guy who would be content to stay at home while his wife goes out and work?

My religion is really important to me, I am a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, and we believe that marriage is really important and that if you marry a faithful and temple worthy (meaning living in accordance to the teachings and standards of the church) member that you can marry inside the temple and be married for eternity (not until death but forever!) and that your children will then be 'sealed' to you for eternity as well. Too me that is an amazing blessing! Is it then, being too picky to not want to marry someone outside of my religion and deny myself and posterity those blessings?

How about Attraction? Isn't that important as well. As my mom always says "It's what's inside that matters, but looks help". Yes, of course you want to be with someone that you think is attractive, I mean you want your kids to be cute, right? Also, everyone has a different perception of attractiveness.

This leads me to my main point of what I have been contemplating, to what extent should you have to be attracted to someone?

What about someone whose a nice guy and I know he will do anything to make me happy but I am just not attracted to him at all, would that be wrong to not really give him a chance? There is always the chance that you will become more attracted to someone as you get to know them. Then I think back about 200 + years ago where many women married someone because he was respectable and kind and could provide for her and they often came to love each other after years of marriage although there wasn't necessarily an attraction at the beginning. However, in modern times most people want that feeling of falling in love and that leading to marriage.

and my next major area of contemplation is where should my expectations be, should I really expect to marry someone with all the above qualities?

now I don't feel like my expectations are too high, yes I want someone who I feel like can take care of me and protect me from scary things like spiders and pitch black darkness when the power goes out, but I don't care if he has a lot of money as long as he's working towards something (ie. School, career goals), and I would rather be a stay-at-home mom but if I have to work I will. As for spiritual commitment, to me that's really important as I want my children to grow up in a home where both parents agree on the standards and values that should be taught, where we can study the scriptures together and pray together. But what about little things like someone who drinks coke (yes, I know its not really part of the "word of Wisdom" and its a debate in its self) or who regularly watches sports on Sunday if thats something I don't do ... or would that just confuse the children and/or spiritual atmosphere of the home more?

I personally don't feel like my standards are too high but when I have people asking me why I'm not married yet I start to question it. Also, I should mention that I do give every guy that asks me out at least one date because I think everyone deserves a chance .. Well except for the guys off the streets and at the bus stop or the weirdos that make me feel really uncomfortable. Well ... I am in Edmonton now .. More LDS guys ... Fresh start .. We'll see.

I should also mention that I am writing this while sitting in my room alone on a Friday night.

July 09, 2006

Books vs. Movies

There seems to be a rise in movies being produced from previously written books. This is probably because producers realize that the script has already been written and popularized and there is already a fan base attached. But do these movies really justify the works of the original author? Does the movie make the book more popular? What's more worth your time, reading the book or watching the movie or are both equal?

I can only comment on what I have read and watched, I have probably seen more movies where I haven't read the corresponding books. Although in most cases if I have read a book that I love I will most likely watch the movie.

I will begin with the current series of books I have fallen in love with, "The Work and the Glory". Now I have to admit that even though these books were originaly published about 16 years ago I never had an interest in reading them until the movie came out, with all the hype surrounding the release of the movie and the reprint of the books in paperback. I went down to Idaho to visit my sister and brother-in-law during the Easter weekend in 2005 and had the opportunity to watch "The Work and the Glory" in the theater in Idaho Falls with my family. My reaction from the movie was that I loved this movie! It really gave me a greater sense of people's reaction towards Joseph Smith's vision and his message of the restored gospel. I could see why some people could be skeptical, but what drove them to fight against Joseph Smith and persecute his family and followers? I could also see the joy people found as the spirit touched their hearts and bore wittiness to them of the truth they had been seeking their whole lives. I could also see that Joseph Smith was also just an ordinary man who worked hard to make an honest living but would not and could not deny the things he knew to be true.

This movie had such a great impression on me that I had to read the book. Not surprisingly, the book was even better, I was captured into this book and the life of the fictional Steed family from the first sentence. Gerald N. Lund has this great ability to really draw the reader into the book and into the minds and views of his characters. He also does a great job in mixing fiction and history and also throughout the book we are given opportunities to really determine what our view is on the subjects given and decide for ourselves what it is we believe to be true. There where a few differences between the movie and the book but none that I thought were too significant. Perhaps because I watched the movie first those differences didn't bother me too much.

When the Second edition came out I was anxious to read this book and watch the movie. (I did wait until it came out on paper back because I thought seen how I had the first in paperback I should collect the whole set in paperback and its also easier to carry paperbacks around to read on the bus and such.) I was halfway throughout the book when the DVD I ordered had arrived so I put down the book for a couple of hours to watch the movie and was disappointed to see the first half or the book viewed in the first 15 minutes, or what seemed to be the first half of the book. It didn't really seem to follow the story line and left out the most important parts of the book, the building and dedication of the temple; the Father, Benjamin's conversion. They also didn't show Lydia's struggles of loneliness in always having her husband Nathan away on work or church assignments. The movie only showed the birth of one child and not the 3 others, which includes one stillborn. In the movie it seems that Jessie is keeping Joshua from their daughter but really Joshua kept himself from them and filed the divorce papers that left her with fear and pain but eventually strength and hope for a a better life free of the abuse she faced with her husband.

If someone with very little knowlege of the history of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints where to watch "The Work and the Glory - American Zion" I doubt they would understand very much about the church history portions. It seems they go through the events rather quickly without really clarifying them. For example someone watching the movie wouldn't know that Joseph and Emma's twins died at birth but soon after were given the Murdocks twins, Joseph and Julia, to care for after their mother died during childbirth. Little Joseph was the one they showed die the night the mobs came and tarred and feathered Joseph Smith. Later in the movie we see the little girl and some may wonder who she is but she is most likely Julia. The movie showed the burning of the printing press but didn't show the little girls who saved the precious documents of "The book of Commandments" that we now know as "The Doctrine and Covenants".

Now I know that the movie can't possibly include everything the book does, but why leave out the most important things, the things that the author placed the greatest significance on? The move mainly focused on the opposition between the Saints and the Mobs which was just a small portion of the book. I would really loved to have seen the movie conclude the same way as the book, with the dedication of the temple the Saints had sacrificed to build and only to enjoy for a short time. To have Ben join his family in the temple and realize why his wife and children had grown to love the gospel.

The reason I think the two movies were so different is that they were distributed by different companies. The first by Excel which is owned by Deseret Books and focuses on movies with LDS content so they of course want to get to the core of the authors message. The second was distributed by Paramount who likely wanted more 'action' in the movie by foucusing on the mobs and persecutions. But in the movies defense, its not that bad of a movie (but the first is way better) to watch if you haven't read the book or try to ignore everything you know from the book. Also, why on earth is this movie rated 14A??!! I almost didn't watch it as I hardly even watch PG 13 movies. There is no foul language, nudity and as for violence ... in my opinion Mulan has more violence.

well, there's my opinion about "The Work and the Glory" ... I can't wait to read the third volume and I hope the movie is better then the second one was, maybe Excel will take over again.

As a young girl I loved reading the "Little house on the Prairie" and "Anne of Green Gabel's" series. Little house on the Prairie was made into a TV series in the 70's and 80's and one that my parents watched together often that when my twin sister and I were born in 1982, Melissa was named after two actresses from the show, Melissa Gilbert and Melissa Sue Anderson. The reruns played long after the shows dismissal and are still shown today. I have probably watched each episode about 5 times. Besides the family members names .. the show is almost entirely fictional. Actually, Mary didn't even get married and never had any children but actually lived a lonely and depressed life after she went blind. oh, and they never adopted those other children either. The show is really well done though and my conclusion is that the show basically just shows modern day problems and how they may have been dealt with in pioneer times (racism, drugs, death, illness, poverty, etc.) and how pioneers worked so hard in farming and building up businesses to make life a little easier for us today. I also looked up the Ingall's family history on www.familysearch.org and was saddened to realize that Charles and Caroline don't have any descendents living today. They had 5 children, yet their posterity ended with the death of Laura's daughter, Rose's baby boy.

"Anne of Green Gables" is a wonderful story about a young girl full of imagination and free will, that sometimes gets her into trouble and her journey to womanhood. The first two movies, "Anne of Green Gables" and "Anne of Avonlea" do a wonderful job at following the story line and capturing the character of Anne. However, I was disappointed in the third movie which was totally made up, and yes, I do know that Anne is a fictional character but she's real to me. Gilbert never went off to war, it was her son's that did and Anne wasn't a nurse in the army, rather she worried everyday for the safety of her sons and grieved at the loss of one. However, you can't help but rejoice at the part where Anne and Gilbert are reunited ... but it just bothers me that the whole movie is made up, they should have just left it at the first two.

now, for one movie that I actually do like more than the book, "Ella Enchanted" ... to me the movie is more an original of the Cinderella fairytale and or course the music, acting and special effects are pretty neat too. The book seemed pretty dark to me and more of a copy of Cinderella. Also, in the book Ella was pretty young, it just seems more appropriate that she was older to know what romantic love really meant.

to sum up my original thoughts, sometimes movies do not justify the original works of the author as in volume 2 of "The Work and the Glory" and sometimes the books and movies are equally great like the first 2 volumes of "Anne of Green Gables". I do believe that it is smart for producers to produce movies from books as they already have a fan base and it is a win-win situation for the producers and the authors, as in most cases those who have read the book will want to see the movie, and those that have seen the movie (and like it) will want to read the book.